I Do Not Need A GF




I Do Not Need A Girlfriend!


I Am Finally Free!



Keep all women away from me O LORD. Not because they are bad, but because I need to love you much more first!


I do not need a woman to be happy. I need you JESUS.... Let me have you first LORD, then sometime later we might talk about a wife, maybe!


I mean LORD if I am not happy with you right now when it is just you and me, why on earth would a woman bring me happiness!


I am so sick and tired of filthy demons telling me how badly I need a girl! Shut your mouths spirits.......... I do not need a girl in my life, I need JESUS in my life. Amen to that!


I am sick of satan shoving the topic of women, dating, sex and marriage down my throat! I am sick of it I say!


I do not need a woman to be happy! I need more of you JESUS. I need much more of you O LORD in my life. 


If I never ever have a date again with a woman...... OH WOW BIG DEAL!! So what...... I need you JESUS in my life so much more than I have you tonight.


If I never hold hands with another woman again, OH WOW BIG DEAL!! I need to learn how to hold your hand JESUS. I need to learn how to stop letting go of your hand O LORD GOD.




There is not a single reason on earth why I need the opposite sex in my life...... I need to hit the streets and start helping people instead LORD.


I need to start blessing people LORD by telling them about you, by feeding them, by clothing them, by praying for them!


The only thing a woman could do right now for me is to take my time away from you JESUS, from taking my time away from helping people, from studying the bible, from doing higher Christian education etc etc........... There is NOT 1 single reason on earth why I need a girlfriend, no not one!


Satan! I said no! I do not need a woman, I do not need to date, I do not need a marriage, I do not need sex..... I need GOD'S son! I say it again → I need GOD' S SON JESUS more!


satan stop telling me what I need..... Flesh, stop telling me what I need. I ALREADY KNOW WHAT I NEED.


 I NEED JESUS!


Since I learned I need JESUS, it is too late now flesh, it is too late now satan......... I need JESUS, not a hot date this weekend!


I gotta get closer to you JESUS! I need to, I have to, I got to start focusing on you more O LORD.


It is just you and me JESUS. If you want to send a wife in the future, praise GOD! But in the meantime, let us NOT even think about it! Let us not even talk about it. Let us not even daydream about it. Let us not!!!


Let us get our minds off of the opposite sex............ Let us get our minds on heaven, eternity, JESUS, love and helping people instead. IN other words, let us get out minds on the really important things in life and stop obsessing on the opposite sex. Wow what a waste of time that truly is.




If I get married or not, who cares! Lord the fields are ripe, send me, send me LORD there is so much work to do out there! There are millions and millions of people out there who are headed straight to the lake of fire for eternity. Send me LORD, I wanna help, I wanna make a difference in my life before I go home to heaven for eternity. Send me LORD I pray.


We have got to get our minds off of the opposite sex, we absolutely have too, we got too, we must.


I need a new woman in my life like I need a hole in my head. No no no I need you JESUS and I need to start helping people more!


What good is it having a new boyfriend in your life if you are lukewarm for JESUS? I mean how is a new boyfriend going to help you at all if you are cold for the LORD and are dying inside spiritually speaking....


What good is it meeting a brand new woman to date if you do not even know JESUS that well?


What good is it announcing your brand new marriage date coming up when you are not even ready to marry JESUS in heaven? 


150,000 people die every single day. So what is the big deal if I get a new girlfriend in my life if I am not even on fire for JESUS yet?


Think children of GOD, think!!!


See past the satanic/fleshly attack of the opposite sex on your life and start focusing on what is really important!


Each day that you waste dwelling on and focusing on the opposite sex, you lost another day you could of spent with JESUS & helping people! And guess what? You will never ever get that time back here on earth. 


Each day you mope around sad and depressed because you are single, you simply lost another day you could of spent with JESUS!


What good is it to get married and to be finally able to have sex if you do not even know JESUS, if you do not even love him!! Wow, wow think about that child of GOD. Think about what I am saying here very carefully! Is having sex more important than getting to know and love GOD'S incredible son JESUS? Think about this very carefully I pray.


Why would I even think of trying to find a woman to date when I am NOT even dating you JESUS.............. What insanity would that be O LORD!




I need to date you JESUS first, I need to fall in love with you LORD first... Then sometime in the future maybe a woman will come! Who know and who cares. Why? Because there are 150,000 people dying again today with most of them going to the lake of fire for eternity. Who cares about the opposite sex, dating, marriage and having sex....... Children of GOD, we have to start helping people, blessing people, feeding people, clothing people and preaching the gospel of the good news of JESUS CHRIST to people!


You got to come first JESUS in my life, you absolutely have to come first.... Teach me how to do this O LORD I pray.


I mean if I am not on fire for you now JESUS, and if I am not helping people right now, how on earth can a new girlfriend help me? Wow what a waste!


There is not one single thing on earth a new girlfriend can do for me, no not one. I need to learn how to abide in you JESUS!


I do not need a new girlfriend to hold my hand, or to see a movie with, or to cook dinner with. No no no. I need to learn how to love you JESUS! I need to learn how to start dating you O LORD every day of my life. Send the grace to do this FATHER IN HEAVEN. Send the grace so I can abide in JESUS 24/7 I pray.


I do not need a new girlfriend to keep me on the phone all night long. No LORD I need to hit the streets and start really blessing people!




I do not need a new girlfriend to go out to dinner with, no no no. I need to get busy and start feeding the homeless people more & more!


I do not need a new girlfriend to go to church with. No no no. I need to start telling people more about the good news of the gospels of JESUS!


I need a new hot sexy girlfriend coming over to my house alone like I need a hole in my head!


And you do NOT either brother and sister..... Think! Think this through what you are reading here today.


I need to start getting to the bible, taking the bible more seriously, reading it for myself! That is something important that I need to do.


I do not need a new girlfriend to make me happy, stop being silly.... She cannot even make herself happy so how on earth can she make me happy! She cant! It is all a fleshly demonic lie that you fell into.... You fell into the demonic trap that says if only you had a boyfriend or girlfriend you would finally be happy. Pure lies!!!


There is NOT 1 single thing a new girlfriend or boyfriend can do for you that is important, NOT ONE! You cannot think of one and you never will. Why? Because there is NOT one!!!


Think children of GOD, think! Think past the fleshly satanic lies........


I do not need a new girlfriend to hug me, to share with me. I need to start passing out clothes to the homeless. I need to pass out bibles to people who do not yet know what JESUS has done for them.


I do not need a new girlfriend to help me to do ministry work. I need GOD and his son JESUS to help me to do ministry work!


A new girlfriend is not GOD, a new boyfriend is not JESUS............. I need the HOLY GHOST to start blessing people through me! In other words, I have to practice to stop obsessing and dwelling on the opposite sex, dating, marriage and sex and start helping people who are headed to the lake of fire to get to know JESUS.


I do not need a new girlfriend to text me all day long. I need to start texting JESUS all day long!


I do not need a new girlfriend to call me every night to tell me how her job is going. I need to tell people how much JESUS loves them instead! I need to tell people that JESUS died on the cross for their terrible sins and now they can repent. Now they can put their faith and trust in JESUS to save their souls............. Do you see what I mean? Do you now see which one is more important!


See past the lies children of GOD, see past the lies that your flesh and satan use to attack you with the opposite sex! See through the lies!


I do not need a new girlfriend or boyfriend to travel the world with. I need to share with people how they can travel and get into heaven!


I do not need to marry and have sex. I need to find out how to use GOD'S grace to overcome the flesh, the lust and masturbation instead! I need to be an over-comer with the grace of GOD helping me and teaching me how.


I will not get married because I am lustful. I will practice what JESUS is teaching me and use his grace to overcome the lust instead! The lust is coming from my evil flesh and a demon, yes a demon of lust. Why on earth would I want to have sex with a child of GOD and pass that demon of lust into her? That is the last thing on earth I want to do to a daughter of the KING.......


I do not need a new girlfriend to try to kiss me, to try to put her lips on me. I have no idea where her lips were last month & I don't want to know!


No no no! I am not letting any women kiss me before marriage. And why should I get married when I do not even love JESUS enough yet to begin with.  How on earth can having a new girlfriend help me to love JESUS more when I do not even love him enough right now while I am all alone! See through the deceptions children of GOD, see through the satanic lies I pray!


I do not need a new girlfriend to go with me helping the homeless people. Wow, I do not even go enough by myself right now. I need to go help people now and not use the topic of waiting for a new girlfriend to help me as a crutch!




I do not need a new girlfriend to motivate me to do ministry work. I need the lake of fire to motivate me to speak to people about JESUS!


I do not need a new girlfriend to motivate me to finally start going to church. I need GOD'S grace to bring the church to the people on the streets.


No sorry any possible new girlfriends, you are not kissing me. You are not hugging me. I will not allow you to put your chest on my chest in a hug. Why on earth would I let you put your chest on my chest in the first place? What is the purpose of that? Children of GOD! A girlfriend is not a wife. Do not mix the two together. Do not get confused. Once again → A girlfriend is NOT a wife.


I need you JESUS to hug me, I need you to rain down your love on me O LORD.


Sorry, where I am at now with the LORD, I do not need to kiss anyone, NOT ANYONE AT ALL EXCEPT A WIFE! 


I am not looking to kiss any new girlfriend, I am NOT looking to kiss you even if you are my fiancee'... Only a wife I would kiss and nobody else! Why? Because a wife and myself have become one in our marriage union with GOD. We are now one person. A girlfriend and myself are NOT one. We have NOT become one person yet. So since this is true, why on earth would you put your lips on your brand new girlfriend or boyfriend? I sure wouldn't.


Why put your lips on someone else's lips that you are not even ever going to marry? Why on earth would you do that?


Why would you let a guy hug you putting his chest on your chest when you know darn well he will be long gone in 2 months from now?


Or better yet → Why would you let your brand new boyfriend hug you putting his chest on your chest when you know darn well he was hugging another girl last weekend and the month before too? Why would you do this?


Think children of GOD, think!!!


I do not need a new girlfriend to lead me to JESUS, to encourage me to go to JESUS. I need JESUS' DAD to encourage me and lead me to his son!


I do not need a new girlfriend to go to the Christian concert next month. I need to tell people about when JESUS fed the 5000 with a few fish and a few loaves of bread.


I do not need to have sex........ I need to get into heaven! I need to help people escape the lake of fire. I need to make a difference here on earth before my time is up and I go home to heaven for eternity. I need my life to matter. I need to use the amount of time that GOD has given me to do all I can to help the kingdom of GOD.


Children of GOD, we have to stop obsessing on the opposite sex. That deception is exactly what satan wants you to do! Do the opposite of what satan wants you to do and start obsessing on JESUS, the bible, ministry work and the kingdom of GOD!


I do not need a new girlfriend to go feed the homeless with me either. I mean I have two hands, I have two feet, with you JESUS by my side we can do it together.


I do not need a new girlfriend to tell me how nice or how good looking I am. I need to look like I have been in a war - A real hard core spiritual war!


I do not need to be good looking to attract a new girlfriend to me. I need to know the bible better so I can answer questions! So I can help people to understand that JESUS died on the cross for their sins and they can be forgiven now.


I cannot worry about if I look good enough for a new girlfriend, I gotta worry about good food to the people who are starving on the streets.


I cannot worry about buying new clothes for dating, or buying the best cologne for any new potential girlfriends I might get. I gotta use my money very carefully instead for the kingdom of GOD to help people.


150,000 people are dying every single day and most of them are going to hell. We gotta stop obsessing on the opposite sex!!!


Think people, think!


I do not need a new girlfriend to go to the park with. I gotta buy some sandwiches and go to the park and feed the homeless!


I do not need a new girlfriend to motivate me to go to JESUS. I mean if I am not motivated now, I have very very seriously problems to begin with!


I do not need a new girlfriend to get rid of the loneliness I battle. I need to practice what JESUS is showing me to shatter the loneliness instead! I need to draw closer and closer to the LORD who will fill up my empty soul, who will heal my shattered heart, who will crush the loneliness inside of me. That is how to get rid of the demon of loneliness.


Using a new girlfriend or boyfriend to shatter your loneliness is simply going from one crutch to the next crutch!! You still are NOT free! Now you are in bondage to your new boyfriend because you now need him to try to get rid of the terrible loneliness you have been living with. You simply went from one bondage, the bondage of loneliness to another type of bondage which is → The bondage to relationships. JESUS is the way to crush both types of demonic and fleshly bondage, JESUS and JESUS only!


If you are crying and crying for a new boyfriend to shatter your loneliness, how do you think JESUS feels about this? I mean after all, JESUS is sitting right there day after day just waiting for you to say hello, yet you are on your hands and knees begging for a new boyfriend. Think child of GOD, think!


You just hurt JESUS' feelings by replacing the LORD in your heart with your crying and begging for a new boyfriend instead.


If you want a new girlfriend because you feel lost and alone, oh wow you better get to know JESUS, you better get to know him real well. I am warning you about this. You are already in a demonic trap.


I do not need a new girlfriend to show off to my friends! First of all I have no friends but JESUS, and I need to show off JESUS to people instead!


I do not need a new girlfriend to turn into a wife a little later so we can have a baby. There are tons and tons of children to adopt if you want too right now in your city or town where you live.




THERE IS NOT 1 SINGLE REASON YOU NEED A NEW Boyfriend OR Girlfriend, NO NOT ONE. YOU ARE SIMPLY DECEIVED BY satan and your flesh!


You cannot think of 1 single important reason to get a new boyfriend or girlfriend, neither can I, not today, not ever! Why? Because there is NOT one!


Children of GOD, stop trying to replace JESUS in your heart with a new boyfriend or girlfriend..... Stop trying to do that.


How can you possibly pray for a new man to marry when you are not even ready to marry JESUS at this time in your life if you were to die today!


Isn't who we marry for eternity more important than who we marry for a few years until they either die or divorce us?


I do not need a new girlfriend to dress up real nice, put on perfume and tempt me. I need that like I need a hole in my head!


Children of GOD, stop listening to your flesh and satan. Stop it, stop it, stop it. You do not need anything but JESUS and do not let anyone or anything tell you differently.


I do not need to have a romantic dinner with a new girlfriend. No no no. I need to pass out more food to the 1 million homeless people in the USA.


I do not need a new girlfriend to hang out with, wow what a waste of time that is. I need to use my time carefully for the kingdom of GOD..... GOD has only given all of us a certain amount of time, so we must use it the best we can with the grace GOD is giving us.


Children of GOD! How much time have you wasted hanging out with a boyfriend or girlfriend? YOU WILL NEVER EVER GET THAT TIME BACK. WOW WHAT A WASTE!


Children of GOD! How many times did you fall into temptation because you were simply just hanging out with your boyfriend or girlfriend?


If you are obsessing on the opposite sex, you are under demonic deception!


If you are crying out to JESUS for a new friend because of your loneliness, you have fallen into A demonic deception!


We have to learn how to spend more time with JESUS and the holy bible so he will fill up our empty souls more and more! That is the key to getting out of these snares and traps.


Do not turn to men and women to fill up your soul, that IS THE DEMONIC DECEPTION BEING PLAYED OUT ON YOU!


I do not need a new girlfriend to tell me nice things, to build me up emotionally. I gotta tell people nice things about JESUS and how JESUS can heal their emotions instead.




I do not need a new girlfriend to help me to feel better. I gotta pass out blankets to the homeless people so they can feel better!


Change the way you are thinking children of GOD........ Pray for grace so you can change the way you are thinking!


The last thing on earth you ever ever ever want to do is to pray for a new boyfriend or girlfriend because your battling terrible loneliness! That right there is the satanic trap!


The only way to truly overcome terrible loneliness is with the grace of GOD to draw very closely to his son JESUS! And doing powerful Christian ministry work helping others can greatly help too to combat against the loneliness.


Turn to JESUS as much as you can and he will shatter the terrible loneliness attacking you! Stop thinking about the opposite sex.


The more you think about the opposite sex, the more you are feeding the demons who are attacking you! As you continue to think about the opposite sex, dating, marriage and sex, the demons will get stronger and stronger who are with you!


Yes I say it again - I need a new Christian girlfriend like I need a hole in my head!


I need to love GOD more. I need to abide in JESUS more. I need to learn the bible better and I especially need to help people more! Now that is not a lie. What I just said here is not a deception. That is the hardcore reality of the truth of the kingdom of GOD.


I need you JESUS, I need you badly in my life............ I do not need a woman, I do not need marriage nor sex, I need you LORD!


You know what children of GOD? If GOD wants me to marry, that is his problem to solve. In the meantime, let us start helping people! Let us focus on JESUS, the bible, heaven, eternity and helping people with a narrow mindedness.....


Of if GOD wants me to marry, let him do it. I gotta get closer to JESUS, I gotta learn the bible better, I gotta help people escape hell!


If GOD wants me to marry someone in the future, that is GOD'S problem, not mine! I will not think about it, I will not dwell on it, I will not obsess on it. Why? Because if I do, all kinds of terrible demons will come and start tormenting me day and night. Boy have I learned this truth, wow!


If you are begging and begging GOD for a new boyfriend or girlfriend, the demons already are with you, attacking you and tormenting you badly!


We do not see anyone in the New testament begging and begging for a new boyfriend or girlfriend, so LET US STOP THIS TOO! Starting with me....


I do not need a new girlfriend to go to the Dodger baseball game with me. I have GOD with me, his son JESUS and at least 1 angel guarding me.


As you can see, it is already quite crowded with me.......


One last time - There is NOT 1 single thing that a new boyfriend or girlfriend can do for us that is important, NO NOT ONE! You are simply under attack, or you are being tested!


One last time - I need a new girlfriend to dress real sexy and wear incredible perfume on our date LIKE A NEED A FREAKING HOLE IN MY HEAD!!!!!!


Get your minds off of guys and girls, get your thoughts off of sex and dating. Oh my gosh, people are going to hell today, do you care?


You would rather have a brand new really hot boyfriend then to help someone escape the lake of fire right? Think child of GOD, think!


If you want to cry in the near future, keep praying for a new boyfriend! If you want to be attacked with jealousy in the near future, keep praying for a new boyfriend! If you want to have arguments, strife and get off path with JESUS and your ministry work, keep praying for a new boyfriend. If you want to keep being tempted with lust to kiss him, to touch him and to have sex, keep praying for a brand new Boyfriend.


But for me! I am done with that fleshly satanic garbage. I am done with the grace of GOD. 


I do not need a girlfriend in my life.



Sincerely, your servant Garrett

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